Do you often wonder how some guys, regardless of looks, seem to always attract gorgeous women? How will your life change if I reveal to you the secrets of attracting women through the power of the subconscious mind? What if it could be done regardless of your looks, the shape you’re in, or amount of money you have?
SELF ACTUALIZING – BELIEF SYSTEMS AND INNER VOICE
Every one of us has an inner voice. This inner voice is responsible for how we feel about ourselves. The secret to attracting beautiful women starts by modifying the negative chatter of our inner voice at a subconscious level. Read the statements below. Which do you use? Remember, we are often unaware that we talk to ourselves in a negative way as it is at a subconscious level.
Who you are (Self Image)
Positive Talk– Women love me for who I am
Negative Talk – I am to ugly, to old, to fat
What you are worth and deserve
Positive Talk – I am worthy of a beautiful and loving women
Negative Talk – Women only want me for my money
Your levels of confidence
Positive Talk – I am confident
Negative Talk – I cannot attract and get gorgeous women
The Type of women you are attracted to and attract
Positive Talk – I attract faithful, caring and loyal woman
Negative Talk – I attract gold diggers, cheaters, liars
Rejection by the women
Positive Talk – Women accept me as I am
Negative Talk – I have nothing to offer her, she will reject me
SELF ACTUALIZING – CHANGING YOUR SELF IMAGE
Self Actualizing is the process of relaxing your mind and body, while using imagery and visualization techniques to create change within the subconscious mind. Visualizing our self as we want, is the first step to creating positive self talk. The steps below are a guide to creating change within ourselves.
Relaxation
Find yourself a nice quiet place free of distractions. Turn off all music, cell phones, pagers, or any other distractions. Sit in a comfortable chair or lay down. Do not cross your legs or arms. Give yourself permission to relax, do not feel guilty about taking time for yourself.
Take in deep breaths for 2 or 3 minutes (In through your nose out through your mouth). Visualize a beautiful scenery or a moment in your life that made you feel at bliss. Put yourself there. What do you feel? What do you see (colors)? What do you hear? Now intensify this image and enjoy for a moment. When you feel you have reached a level of deep relaxation (self-hypnosis) move to the next step.
Visualizing the desired results
Now that you are in a deep trance like state of relaxation, begin to visualize yourself with women feeling confident, attractive, having something to offer them. You want to visualize having already accomplished your desired results or goals.
Imagine being the person you want. See yourself as confident, successful, financially secure and attracting gorgeous women. Rehearse scenarios in your mind. If you want to meet women at a particular bar, visualize yourself seeing an attractive woman sitting there.
Visualize yourself walking up to her, talking to her, feeling confident, attractive and full of power. What will you say to her? See yourself asking for her number. Imagine liking yourself and feeling confident she will like you. See the both of you laughing, sharing a drink. See the want, drive and excitement towards you in her eyes. Imagine what it feels like after she hands you her phone number. Imagine the scenario going any way you like. It could end in a hug, a kiss, or you taking her home.
If you questions whether this works or not, what do you normally feel before you go and talk to a women? Do you imagine the rejection and failure? Do you not approach her at all because you don’t think you stand a chance?
The truth is, to have success with women, you must first imagine and visualize yourself being successful. Practice this technique for 30 days straight. Why 30 days? Studies have shown that in order for something to become a habit, we must do it for 30 consecutive days. That’s the goal, for you to feel confident and attractive approaching women. We want it to become an automatic response, where you have no fear or worries about going after women at anytime.
Endless Uses
Self actualizing has unlimited potential. It isn’t used for just attracting women. Use it for athletic performance, achieving financial success, getting a job promotion, or becoming a better husband. Once you prefect the process of self actualizing you will realize how powerful our subconscious mind is.
Part Two
“The Art of Seduction – What women want”
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